Babies & Toddlers Information

Its Not Too Late to Vaccinate Against the Fear of Failure Flu


There's an epidemic in our culture. Have you heard of the 'fear of failure flu?'

Early symptoms include sweaty palms and a knot in the stomach. Those in the middles stages of the 'disease' have an intense focus on 'resume building' -- children's activities are no longer for fun but become accomplishments that will somehow separate some important future application from the rest of the pack. A form of paralysis (that keeps kids from trying new things at which they might not instantnly excel) is a symptom only visible in the later stages of the disease.

Parents who want to teach kids to value effort for its own sake start with themselves. They start with their own fears. Everyone fails from time to time; when we don't it's often because we're not stretching far enough!

To vaccinate your kids agains the 'fear of failure flu' a careful self examination may be in order. After all, to thrive, a virus needs a carrier and a hospitable environment. As parents, it's importnat that we take steps to make sure we're not 'carriers' of the very behavior we're trying to help our kids avoid!

For example, if you're too hard on yourself when you 'come up short' do you hide that fact from your children? Could you, instead, share the fact that you -- and they -- are human beings with a lot to learn and there will always be times in life when we fail at something we care about? There is strength in learning to view setbacks as learning.

Which outlook is supported by the environment that your kids are in?

Andrea Patten, LADC is the co-author of What Kids Need to Succeed: Four Foundations of Adult Achievement now available on Amazon.com

For more information about the Four Foundations, or to book Andrea to speak to your group, please visit http://www.whatkidsneedtosucceed.com

  


MORE RESOURCES:

PLAYSKOOL POPPIN' PARK ELEFUN BUSY BALL POPPER Toy Wins Infant/Toddler Toy of ...
EON: Enhanced Online News (press release)
The ELEFUN BUSY BALL POPPER toy combines the favorite ELEFUN character with the popular BUSY BALL POPPER toy to engage babies as they explore the world through ball play. “We are thrilled that the Toy Industry Association has recognized the ELEFUN BUSY ...

and more »


Keeping the Baby Buys in Florissant
Patch.com
Before you leave the city to spend money on a new toddler bed or Easter outfits for your children, check out the two children's resale shops right here in town. By Maria Jansen Katie & Jake's Closet just opened its doors last year.



Live And Learn
Patch.com
You have the rest of your life to clean, but your kids are only babies, toddlers and teenagers once. 3. You are NOT alone - I realize Bethany has already covered this topic, but I just want to throw my two cents in here. She's right.



Water Babies joins Beacon network
DCA (press release)
The world's largest baby and toddler swimming company, Honiton-based Water Babies, has become the latest business to join Beacon, the South West's peer-to-peer business network. The hugely successful company has 46 franchises across the UK, ...

and more »


Irondequoit events, Feb. 13
Irondequoit Post
10:15 am, Toddler/Talkers Storytime: Irondequoit Public Library — Evans Branch, 45 Cooper Road, Rochester. Toddler/Talkers Storytime for ages 2 and 3 with caregiver every Mondays or Tuesdays at 10:15 am Each session features stories, songs, ...



New Parent

10 Travel Tips for Babies and Toddlers
New Parent
By Colleen Lanin My preschooler daughter and toddler son have logged many hours miles on airplanes and road trips and have spent many nights in hotels during their short lives. It took a lot of trial and error to figure out how to keep little ones ...



Childcarriers.com Announces Sale On Bestselling Kokopax Child Carriers
Daily Markets (press release)
Childcarriers.com, retailers of front baby carriers, baby backpacks and hiking accessories for babies and toddlers, recently announced a sale on popular Kokopax child carriers. For a limited time, shoppers can enjoy sale prices on popular Kokopax child ...

and more »


It's Baby & Toddler Time at the library
Sierra Vista Herald
Jennifer Perks, with her 10-month-old daughter Elizabeth, performs 'Horsey, horsey ride with me,' a bouncing song, during the first 'Baby and Toddler Time' event in the Mona Bishop meeting room at the Sierra Vista Public Library on Tuesday.



Indian baby's case opens doors into a dark world
CNN International
Doctors operated on the toddler, opened up her airways and placed her on a ventilator. They named her Falak, which means sky. Her condition remains critical, said Dr. Sumit Sinha of the India Institute of Medical Sciences. No one knows whether she will ...

and more »


Where to Go With the Kids: Feb. 6-13
Patch.com
Toddler Time Kids 18-36 months hear picture books read aloud and play with other children. Space is limited. Pick up a ticket at the Children's Reference Desk on the morning of the program. Central Library, 10 Grand Army Plaza, 10:15 or 11 am Free.


Google News

Article List | Index | Site Map
All logos, trademarks and articles on this site are property and copyright of their respective owner(s).
The comments are property of their posters, all the rest is Copyright © 2006 CanadaSEEK.com - All Rights Reserved.